Holiday Parties

With Holiday parties coming up at work and school remember that though it's time to have fun, you have to remain professional. Have a drink or two, bust a small move on the dance floor and make sure to network and have a good time. Dress appropriately and most importantly do not be the one dancing productively or passing out because you drank too much. Enjoy yourself, spend time with co-workers and have fun! Just remember though most things are not talked about that happen at the party, people don't forget what happened.

Have fun in the holidays and new years lady! Get ready for the January feature!

Friendly tips for those coming up on finals!

The number one rule we all forget... DO NOT PROCRASTINATE!

With many of Asset Ladies in undergrad and grad school, the semester is almost over which means finals which means last minute papers and cramming! Let's not do this. Though it may be late for some, for the ones there is still saving we can do please read the below!

-Make a to do list, start with the big things first so you don't burn all your energy out on the little tasks.
-Break things into smaller tasks. Instead of saying "Study for stats exam" write "Study chapter 12 for stats, study chapter 13, study 14-15, etc..."
-Set deadlines for yourself
-Reward yourself! If you work for a full day on homework and such, treat yourself to a walk or watching one of your favorite shows

For papers, start with the basics first like topic, outline, research, etc.

Just remember, you need sleep and you need to eat. Pulling an allnighter is not ideal in the real so while you have the chance. Train yourself now not to procrastinate. Because in the real world of business it's not all that acceptable and you have deadlines you must meet!

Good luck to everyone on finals and have a happy and healthy holiday, new year and winter break. You deserve it!

Looking and sounding powerful, roar!

"7 Ways to Look and Sound Powerful" an article in Women's Health from November 2012 has tips for all of us ladies on how to appear and act powerful in business. Let's see what they had to note on-

"You know a woman with power when you see we, don't you? She has a certain aura around her. Over the years, I've been able to meet a number of women who have a lot of power in their jobs-Hollywood Studios Presidents, for instance, and US Senators. I once even had the privilege of hosting a luncheon at the White House with the First Lady Hilary Rodman Clinton. Talk about a woman with aura. When you radiate strength through your physical actions, such as body language and your voice, you signal to those around you that you are the person in charge and you deserve respect. As you gain coincidence over time, you'll naturally begin to come across with more authority.  Some tips to get you started:

1.    Watch your posture. “Slouching whether you’re sitting or standing gives the impression that you’re weak and insecure” says Lillian Glass, P D, a body-language and communications expert.

2.    When you are having a conversation, position your body so that your toes are pointing at the other person. It shows that you aren’t intimidated.

3.    When you’re talking to someone, hold the other person’s gaze. Powerful people make you feel as though you’re the only person in the room.

4.    Go deep with your voice. “Deeper voices just seem stronger. Squeeze down on your abs when you speak to assure your pitch is low” said Glass and recommended that you modulate your voice so that it’s not too soft (you’ll seem weak) or too loud (you’ll seem desperate for attention). You don’t want to speak monotone though. Stress descriptive words so you sound enthusiastic.

5.    Lose the uptalk. That’s when your pitch goes up at the end of sentences and you sound uncertain of what you’re saying.

6.    Smile less, nod less. These are ways we connect with a speaker. Both sexes smile and nod to people who are more powerful than they are, but studies show that women tend to smile and nod more to peers. It’s nice that we connect so well with others, but too much smiling can make you seem needy to please.

7.    Never let them see you sweat. No matter how rattled you feel in a particular situation, do your best to keep cool.

I can’t say I entirely agree with this article, but it does not some good points. You should always present yourself as being sure and confident. The moment you don’t, watch out! You’re like the last kid in dodge ball! I do agree with the posture, losing the uptalk, never let them see you sweat and how to position your body while talking to someone. These are important key communication factors you should always present. You never know when you are going to end up in the elevator with a VP you have never met before so I say smile and be nice to all. You never know when that one time you’re rude can come back and bit you in the you know where!

SITE IS ACTING UP!

The site seems to be acting up! So until I can post this on the page it should be organized to, please enjoy the below!

OUR SECOND ASSET LADY, STEPHANIE SINCK!

First, I would like to take the time to apologize that this feature is late. Second, I would like to thank Steph so much for taking the time to fill out our survey!

        Steph Sinck an amazingly bright, driven and devoted women is a graduate of Ramapo College from Spring 2012. To easily describe her she loves children and has a love for teaching and coaching swimming. While at Ramapo, Steph was involved in InterVarsity Fellowship holding a position on the student e-board for a year. She was also on the College swim team for four years and help the title and duties of a captain for two years. She also had an amazing opportunity volunteer time to spend in La Cuchilla, Dominican Republic to live with a family and learn the culture during the experience “Bridges to the Dominican Republic.” Now that Steph has graduated and is in the “Real World” she knows she wants to further her education.

Right now, Steph is currently completing student teaching and looking for a High School/Middle School science position. During this time, she has also been coaching for a local swim team and plans do continue once she starts teaching. SO! All while teaching and coaching, Steph has another goal. In Spring 2013 she plans to begin the application process to Grad schools to receive a masters in Science Education or Environmental Science.

        One part of Steph’s responses that really stood out to me was the quote she lives be. This is a quote all should preach and live by because after all the truth is exactly in the words she says –

I would say the quote that I live by or always say is “Life’s too short.”  I’ve been trying to remember this more than ever and how life really is too short to hold grudges or regret decisions I’ve made.  I always try to remember that somewhere, someone has it much worse than me and I need to be thankful for what I have in this moment.  I feel blessed to have the life I do and that I constantly need to remind myself that life is short and it isn’t worth it to be down on myself or sweat the small things. 

A part I love about Steph’s charismatic ways is that she knows who she is and what she wants. She doesn’t play the whole well whatever happens, happens and I’ll see what I can do or if I can get there. The girl sets a goal and digs in with open eyes and arms to do the best she can. And let me tell you, this girl always succeeds. So what exactly is Steph’s story that makes her this way then, right?

Even as a child I always loved science, being outdoors, and helping my fellow students learn and understand material in school.  I was always extremely active with swimming and being involved in different sports.  So, from a young age I knew teaching or doing a profession with science was always at the top of my list.

After my freshman year of college, I traveled to the Dominican Republic to live for two weeks in the mountains with a very poor family.  While there I discovered even more my passion for teaching and helping others.  For me, that trip helped confirm that teaching was something that I would definitely want to try out and pursue.  That summer was also my first summer coaching at a local swim club and realized too that coaching was a strong passion of mine.  Overall, that first summer really shaped the rest of my college experience and helped me prioritize what I wanted to do with the rest of my life.

        This past year I have begun coaching the top swimmers in the state at the club I started off swimming at.  It has further solidified my love of coaching and involvement in swimming.  I have also just about finished up my student teaching where I have discovered how much I enjoy middle school aged children and helping them learn to love science as much as I do.  So between my freshman year of college and the year following graduation, I have in a way, come full circle to realize that what once started as dreams are slowly becoming reality for me.

A large part of life people should pay a lot of attention to is goal setting. Setting goals means that you want something and you are going to go after it. If you want to achieve, you will find ways to stay on task such as a progress report from yourself, like reflecting back every so often to see where you’re at and even feedback from others to see their opinions. One thing I love to ask Asset Ladies is to tell me where they see themselves in a year, 5 years and 10. Obviously Asset ladies know this or at least have given it some thought. What I loved about Steph’s was that she was realistic and really had a wide variety in what her plans are. She didn’t just talk about a career or education, she talked about it all!

In a year, I hope to have a job teaching science in a middle school.  I will probably still be living at home, saving to eventually move out on my own.

In five years, I would see myself still teaching science and coaching.  I would hope to be married by this point of my life and own my own home.  Also in five years, I would see myself having completed a master’s degree of some sort. 

In ten years, I would see myself possibly starting a family and still teaching.  By this point, I may have or at least looked into completing another master’s degree, or a doctorate degree to possibly teach at a college or university.

Another important question I ask of the ladies is for them to provide me with advice, advice for what they want you to know. After all, this blog is here for you all to read, learn and act. Always hearing advice from others gives you different perspective and different ideas. It allows you the creativity and ability to be perspective to everyone’s ideas. I love Steph’s advice because it is something that I feel too. Steph and I see eye to eye on many things life and I am grateful to know I am surrounded by such good friends! Here’s what Steph had to say –

I would tell other young women going into the “real world” to first and foremost do what you love.  It sounds so cliché, but I really think that’s the key to being successful and most important happy.  If you can wake up being happy and excited to go to work that day, it’ll make your life so much more enjoyable.  Not only will it benefit you, but your fellow employees and the people you interact with on a daily basis. 

I would also say time management is key when entering college especially and when entering the “real world.”  If you can keep yourself organized and manage your time, it opens your doors to do so much with your day and more importantly your life. 

I thank you all and I thank Steph Sinck as well. I hope through these features its sparking ideas and making you all think “hm”. After all, some of the best moments are the “a-ha!” moments. Please continue reading and continue succeeding. We’re the future here of business, America and the World. If we’re not going to get things done, then who will? ;)

Please feel free to contact Steph by phone at 908-930-5856.

ASSET LADY NUMBER 2

Hello all! Pardon my very delayed post! BUT tonight on the Asset Lady page there will be a new lady featured! CHECK IT OUT!