Friday, August 16, 2013

A little old but certainly not dated!





I found this great article in People May 2013 edition, titled “TIPS FOR A NEW JOB.” Certainly helpful to a lot of you ASSETS ladies out there. It covers dress code mostly and touches on accessories, appropriateness, hair and make-up.

For dress code it states “Once you’ve been offered a position, inquire with HR about the office’s dress code: Are bare legs okay? What about sleeveless tops? It’s always better to get guidance before you start” (Jennifer Medberry, entrepreneur. Personally, my opinions of dress code are 1). See what everyone else is wearing? If you are comfortable with what everyone else wears, go with that. 2). Dresses/shorts to above the knee, covered toes and shoulders, watch the cleavage and no bellies showing. 3). Dress for the job you want, not the job you have! It’s awesome because my place of work is very casual with dress code in some departments. Most people shoot for jeans and a tee, there’s no pant suit attire so it’s nice to feel comfortable no matter what my look is that day as long as I abide by rule number 2.

Then there is advice for keeping your look “classic.” It says, “Build your wardrobe around timeless pieces like tailored jackets that can be worn all year-round. Stick to buying only a few trendy items each season’ Jennifer Medberry.”

When it comes to accessories, what’s best is “playful extras” as they “Are key to keeping your look fresh. Choose something small but interesting, like a bright pair of heels, a colorful belt or a statement necklace” Carol Semrad, director at large, Chicago Society of Human Resources Management.

“Be comfortable not casual – some offices can be more laidback, but always stay away from things like jean shorts and flip flops. You want to feel good, but you don’t want to look like you’re headed to the beach” Pat Wadors, vice president of Global Talent Organizational at LinkedIn. I couldn’t agree more. Always be sure to be aware of your surroundings. Take notes of a person at work that is professional and looks presentable; try to fit their fashion style and even ask them where they shop.

DON’T BARE TOO MUCH SKIN (You’re at work NOT A CLUB!) “You never want to seem over exposed at work – if you’re going to wear a strappy top because it’s summer and it’s hot out, add a little cardigan to cover your shoulders – and bra straps. Girls tend to dress for the weather and not the office’ Pat Wadors”. When it comes down to it, most offices blare AC all year round and definitely in the Summer, of course this may not be the case for teachers. But always think hm, would I want my grandparents or a religious figure to see me dressed like this? Hm. Chances are NO. Be respectful to yourself and others around you, most importantly dress professionally and save the cute summer tank dresses for going out. And never show bra straps, it’s not classy.

Another point on clothing – make sure it fits well. “The way you feel in your outfit can affect your confidence level. If you’re physically uncomfortable because your clothes are too tight or loose, you’re going to fidget and appear self-conscious’ Pat Wadors”. Not only should you feel “comfortable in your own skin” you need to appear comfortable in your clothing as you want to be as confident as can be.

As far as hair and makeup “go for polished” looks. “Your beauty look should always be pulled-together, but not overdone. Things like heavy makeup or wet hair are major no-nos. It looks like you haven’t taking your job seriously” Carol Semrad. So basically, for makeup go for the less is more look and as with hair, look tidy and put together ladies! AKA no showering 5 minutes before you leave unless you’re hair dries fast and flawlessly.

“Dress like it’s interview day: always err on the side of being overdressed. If you’re just a few months into a new job, you’re still being evaluated, so it’s smart to be more cautious” Pat Wadors.

Friday, August 9, 2013

It's been a while...

Hello world!

It has certainly been a LONG time since I have posted on here. I wanted to post a very interesting site that was brought to my attention recently.

I am currently working on my master's thesis that focuses on women's opinions on bullying in the workplace. My adviser asked me to look at the site http://www.workplacebullying.org/individuals/problem/being-bullied/

Through looking at this site, I found some serious information I would have never imagined. The statistics are insanely high of how much bullying is going on. Also, definitely read the FAQ section on harassment vs. bullying, you'll be surprised. AND NOT IN A GOOD WAY!

Enjoy! And hopefully I'll start posting more again soon!

Stay classy and sassy, confident and driven ladies!